How often do you feel misunderstood when communicating, whether it be by email, in person, or text?

Do you often feel like your messages are not received how you intended them to be?

If you are nodding your head, then you know how unsatisfying it is when the person you are talking to does not get what you are saying.

The good news is that you can learn to be a better communicator. 

In this episode, I lay out a seven-step formula to ensure your side of the street is clean when it comes to communicating effectively and powerfully.

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I had the pleasure of interviewing best-selling author and talented interviewer, Kelly Corrigan. 

We covered so much: 

- Kelly's childhood dream of becoming a writer 

- How her dad's unwavering support bolstered her

- Her experience with chemo and cancer 

- Kelly's reflections on her mom's parenting style and how she may have benefitted from it

- Kelly's favorite interview questions and techniques.

If you ever wanted to know more about her or simply want to tune into a thought-provoking conversation (thanks to Kelly's astute self-awareness), this episode is one you must watch! I hope you enjoy it as much as I did.

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Have you ever wondered how to set boundaries without guilt?

Do you second-guess yourself when setting boundaries?

Or are you unsure of what boundaries you even need?

Then read on, my friend, because in this episode, I am answering the eight most common questions I get asked about boundaries.

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I am thrilled to welcome my favorite menopause doctor to the show: Dr. Mary Claire Haver. 

I have been obsessed with following her on Instagram because she shares so much helpful information for free. I know menopause is a topic you wanted to see more of and I couldn't be more excited to have Dr. Mary Claire here to set the record straight. 

For those who don't know, Dr. Mary Claire is a board-certified OBGYN who, after experiencing menopause and not being able to lose weight, went back to school at Tulane University to become a Certified Culinary Medicine Specialist. She went on to create The Galveston Diet, a three-pronged lifestyle plan that encourages fuel refocusing, intermittent fasting, and anti-inflammatory nutrition to manage hormonal symptoms, stabilize weight, and revitalize the body as it ages to provide benefits that will last a lifetime.

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Have you ever said, “I’ll start working out/meditating/eating better/going to bed earlier…” and didn’t follow through?

Where next week comes, and you’ve either forgotten about it or no longer feel like making the change?

If you experience this type of resistance and struggle to keep your word (to yourself and others), you are not alone. I was there in my 20s. 

But it is a sign of disordered internal boundaries, which could be robbing you of potential. 

In this episode, I break down the symptoms of having crappy internal boundaries and give you a 7-step process to kick resistance to the curb. Follow this process, and in time, you will reach your goals, feel better about yourself, and follow through on what you say you will do.

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I am psyched to welcome one of my nearest and dearest, master coach Josselyne Herman-Saccio. I met Josselyne during my talent agent days, and she has had a profound impact on my life. 

Growing up, Josselyn's parents separated. After attending transformational workshops, they got back together. Josselyn noticed they were completely changed by the experience, and attended her first transformational workshop at age 11. It was at her nudging that I attended mine, which led to me leaving my talent agent career behind to become a psychotherapist. 

Josselyn has taken the principles she learned in those transformational workshops to change people's lives. Her focus is on living the life you want NOW rather than a mysterious "someday" in the future. 

I hope you find our conversation as fascinating as I did.

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When someone comes to you with negative feedback, do you get defensive? 

Do you automatically come up with reasons why you did something, building a case for the way you did it?

Do you shift the blame onto someone else? 

Or does your heart start racing?

If this resonates, you are not alone. It is human to want to defend your choices, actions, and beliefs. 

But defensiveness damages our relationships, which is why this episode is all about becoming more aware of defensive behavior and what you can do instead.

I am covering the signs and symptoms of defensiveness, why we get defensive in the first place, and strategies you can use to become less defensive.

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I am so excited to welcome my pal, Dr. Alexandra Solomon, on the show to talk about her new book, Love Every Day: 365 Relational Self-Awareness Practices to Help Your Relationship Heal, Grow and Thrive.

This conversation is all about love: how we can keep our love strong, what to do if it's not going so well, daily practices you can start doing today, and so much more. Dr. Alexandra Solomon and I discuss relational self-awareness, family of origin issues, and the difficulties of dating in a modern world.

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TRIGGER WARNING: This episode/blog contains a story about (gun) violence which may be triggering to survivors.

Many years ago, my husband and I were held up at gunpoint. 

I have mentioned it before, but I have never shared the full story because it was traumatic. 

When one of you asked me to share this experience, how it impacted my life, and how I recovered from it, I thought it might be time to share. 

By sharing my story of trauma and recovery, I hope to help others who have experienced a traumatic event.

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